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It´s always darkest before the dawn

By February 7, 2016 49 Comments
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On Friday morning the European Championship in Ski mountaineering begun. The conditions were perfect for the race, sun and powder. After a good start for me in the World cup and with a good shape I was eager to give it all. With good feelings in the first uphill I felt confident. In the end of the first downhill a racer skied on the back of my skies, and with that light touch I lost control and tumbled out in the deep powder snow. Frustrated I started to crawl up. I felt something strange in my right knee but decided to try to get to the transition point. I couldn’t put any weight on my right leg so it was difficult to skejt. There I started to understand that something was not right.

I continued anyway, but in those few minutes I heard so many voices in me telling me I shouldn’t.

So I stopped and went immediately to the race doctor.

I got my hopes up when my knee did not swell so much and the pain was not unbearable (but it so difficult to know when the pain is too much, no? It can always be worse?!). Immediately I got a time for an MRI and another examination at a specialist in Martingy. He thought the cruciate ligaments were ok as he controlled different movements, but an MRI would show much more. I started to feel confident and relief when 2 different doctors told me it was almost sure it could not be the cruciate ligaments. A meniscus operation is small so that would be easy to recover from.

When the MRI was over and we looked at the pictures I almost could´nt understand what they told me. The cruciate ligament was broken.

What?

All my hope disappeared. I felt like the floor disappeared under me. What does this mean? How long will it take? Shall I make an operation or not? Will I ever get back to running and skiing confident? So many questions, not any answer.

Being a professional athlete demands that we give everything. Training racing recovering, this is what matters for us. We need to live in this little bubble to be able to do our best everyday all year around. So when something disturbs this for sure it´s like heaven falls down. It was dark and I cried my heart out.

I was frustrated, scared, disappointed, heartbroken, sad and all at the same time my brain worked frantically with different options and scenarios.

I think that it is important to feel nothing but sadness. For a while. But it is even more important to break out from the darkness and to search that tiny little light. It might not be what we planned but we need to adapt to the situation. If we can´t aloud ourselves to be sad and disappointed it is like nothing matters. Even though in the whole wide world it means nothing. But right here and now, for me it was everything that matter.

I will aloud myself to feel sad for a little more time until I feel it´s time to just look forward. I feel it´s coming soon, the brighter time.

As soon as the inflammation has settled I´ll make a new MRI and after that we´ll take a decision.

And reading all your comments and messages warms my heart and make me cry even more. So much love and support from all of you means so much.

Thank you from all my heart.

I will not give up. I will get back.

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Emelie

Emelie

Swedish mountain lover. Loves running and skiing, farming and baking! ❤

  • Darren John

    So sorry to hear about this. Your adventures, pictures and smile always brighten my twitter and Facebook feeds. You’ve given so much to sport and I’m sure your passion and the joy you bring will help you through the tough times. Rest. Indulge your other passions. Get better. Come back stronger. Best wishes for your recovery and keep smiling. Progress, like mountains, like life is never linear. X

  • Kelly

    I agree with you about allowing yourself a sad time. And that you know your happier time is coming is all the more important! I’m cheering for you and hope you get better soon! You are so strong and so many of us look to you for inspiration! Even now, in your dark time, you are inspiring! You will get back to all of your activities sometime soon, and from this you will have become even stronger. 🙂

  • Keith

    So true. Love this, yet at the same time hate hearing about such an injury it’s an awful thing to happen.

  • James Andrews – Birmingham Alabama, USA. Is the best doctor for this. See on the American football players he has fixed.

  • Benjamin JACQUET

    Be strong and take care ! I wish you a fast recovery and you’ll come back stronger

  • Michela

    Dear Emelie, you do not have to worry too much for the broken legament, because after surgery and a proper rehabilitation that will take 6 months your knee will be new.
    I know that for sure because I was operated too (by one of the best doctors in Italy, mr. Stefani) and now I can do everything. Many athletes too have been operated because the break of the anterior knee legametes is so frequent. After surgery and rehabilitation the returned being as good as before.
    So relax and don’t worry that much. You just have to turn to the best knee surgeon in Europe and let them to do their job properly. Then go the one of the best physiotherapist in the area where you live and follow the rehabilitation properly.
    Of course you have to forget about racing in 2016, but I’m sure in 2017 you’ll be even stronger.
    Be confident and let your brain and body relax!
    Best wishes, Michela

  • Raul Castro

    Emelie do MRI later.. I had one rigth after a sprained my left ankle… Broken ligaments… A week after the New MRI showed sprained ankle but no rupture… We love you.. You’re al inspiration, we want to see you again doing what you love smiling… Blessings Emelie…

  • Joao Vitor Novaes

    So hard to read and explain what we feel in those situations, but you are such a happy girl, be sure that those brighter days will come back! I am sure you will see the “good part” in all this… Be strong and count with us!

  • Sophie Nicholson

    You’re already closer to being back than you were yesterday – hang in there. They say adversity doesn’t build character, it reveals it so you will be just fine 🙂

  • Running Zuschi

    You will get back much stronger – Even stronger you haven’t ever dreamed!!!! Those setbacks will become a gift… After a while…
    Take your time – be sad – and enjoy your way back!!!
    All the best – Running Zuschi

  • Lucy Atcheson

    Dear Emelie, My heart goes out to you. I wish you courage and strength for your recovery. I love following you on Instagram. I find your beautiful pictures and posts truly inspiring. You are a fantastic role model. You should allow yourself the time to feel sad when the time is right you will start to feel more positive and see new opportunities. I look forward to following your recovery and seeing the new avenues that you are going to explore whilst you give your body time to heal. Lots of love and positive feelings, Lucy 🙂

  • Nacho

    you are the smile of the mountain, will return very soon, much encouragement

  • Manolo

    You are really strong and will overcome this injury. Try to be positive and take this as a chance to learn. meditation and yoga will bring peace to tour heart. You will come back stronger than ever but be patient.

  • Tony

    Emily we are with You… We’ll neve abandon You….specially in this moment!!! I Hope To See You Soon on high Mountains tops!

  • Maya Hena

    You have always been an inspiration, even more so now than ever because of the heart and determination you show to come back stronger. I wish you nothing but the best in your time of healing. ?

  • Jean-Noël

    Courage, take time. We think about you. You will come back stronger.

  • Morgane

    Hi Emelie,

    My thoughts are with you, I really hope you will recover soon and I wish you strength for those darks times. I really admire you and your approach of sports, you are an great inspiration for me…I wish you the best.

  • Miguel Carmo

    Take time to recover, we´ll be where as well as the moutains, take care and u´ll be back stronger than ever. Thank u for all the inspiration, from Portugal with love.

  • Huyen

    Thank you for sharing your words. I have been recovering from a running injury myself for the past three months, so I hear you and feel your pain. Be strong. It’s definitely okay to take your time to be sad, but know that an injury is only temporary, so you will be back soon!!! Also posting this on my wall helped me too:

    I will be fine.
    I will be great.
    I will be stronger.
    I will be ready.

    When you give 100% in training, give also 100% in recovery time. Yoga has helped me through this phase too – so just stay strong and believe in yourself. Big hugs from Germany. Love and healing.

  • Thao

    There is an Option to sew back together writhing the first week after it broke. One doctor in Bern Switzerland does it. Read about it before it is too late. http://www.med-library.com/kreuzband-therapie-ueberblick-vergleich-therapieformen/

    I hear about this option too late. Be sad the sun will shine again. It took a while for me too. Thanks for sharing your feelings. I felt exactly the same when it happened.

  • Marie

    Of course you will get back Emilie! Your testimony is very powerful, like you said you have to be sad to feel things, but your strength and determination to come back to what you love doing will take over and will push you forward and up again. All the very best, wishing you a safe and fast road to recovery.

  • Patrizia

    Så klart du kommer tillbaka. Du är min förebild och idol. Du är den jag föreställer mig att jag är när jag springer i bergen. Du kommer tillbaka, starkare än någonsin!

  • Ella

    Emelie! Du är fantastisk!! Jag har nyligen funnit glädjen i att springa då min kropp inte längre vill dansa på den nivå jag vill. Och du har med din glädje för att löpa länge och långt kommit att bli en stor inspirationskälla för mig. Vi är många som hejar på dig nu och önskar dig all lycka. Du verkar ju vara världens superkvinna, så vi får hoppas att dina superkrafter skonar dig med en snabb, men framför allt ordentlig läkning utan komplikationer. Heja heja dig!

  • Mauricio Bahia

    “I will not give up. I will get back.”

    Thank you. 😀

  • Michał Ciupiński

    You will back stronger and faster than any time! Cros my fingers for Yours knee!

  • Rosana Bahillo

    It’s ok to be sad for a while but remember that everything goes by and in a few mounth this will become in just bad memory. I’m sure you are goning to find nice things to do this months

  • Clara

    Ets la millor, Emilie! Tornaràs forta com sempre! Molts d’ànims en la teva recuperació! ☺️??

  • alexa

    i am sure you will make it!!! :o) you will come back stronger and you will conquer the world! <3

  • Roxana

    Have faith ! Everything happens for a reason. Get well soon and heal well !

  • Meryfromthesea

    Go fighter!! Sometimes we need to take a step back to come back stronger ☺️ Resilience, patience and perseverance!!

  • Mirko

    Your leg deserves the time off. Give it proper time to hear and it will pay you back for the rest of your life. It’s not the time to rush, and our respect for your efforts will not change. Take care, we’ll stay tuned for the moments you decide to share but in the mean-time – rest.

  • Pedro Pereira

    Lovely Emelie, the most beautiful smile of world, you are a very hard girl, strong, an incredible athlete. You will back titanic, and you know, what does not kill us makes us stronger!!!
    I wish you the best, from Portugal with love, Thank u for all the inspiration, and GoGoGoGo

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  • Tomás Ciudad

    That this situation is a small bump in the road, not to you to make a wall.

    Much encouragement and speedy recovery.

  • Johanna

    Finaste Emelie! Krya på dig. Du kommer tillbaka, din kropp vill springa så den kommer se till att den får göra det, åka skidor också! Jag tror på dig. Stor kram!!!

  • Fernando Ramos Villajos

    Emelie, you’re so full of joy and light. Please, don’t let this take that away from you. You’ll be back sooner than you think and stronger than ever.

  • Elise

    I am sure you WILL get back and we can’t wait for it. Best of luck with your decision and recovery.

  • Sarahjustinebapt

    You are the best, a model for me and my 2 kids.
    For sure you will come back with a stronger mind.
    XoXo
    Sarah, Justine & Baptiste

  • Mariona Masanas

    Emelie jo no et puc escriure en angles perquè no en ser, però et dic des de el mès profunt del meu cor, que segur que el coratge que portes a dins t’ajudaran a suparar aquet difícil moment. Tú tens molta i molta força dins teu i no perdis l’esperança que segur que podràs recuperar la llum i potser brillarà encara en mès que mai, Mariona de Banyoles

  • Robin Garnier

    Hey Emelie, keep your smile even if life don’t want you to, you’ll be back soon and stronger !
    Here a little song to cheer you up from disney, a happy bear, can help to remind you to keep the smile sometimes 😉
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ogQ0uge06o

  • worm

    Though not an elite athlete, I can relate. I have had 4 knee surgeries, 2 on each knee, including the anterior cruciate ligament tear in both knees. I didn’t even begin to run, until after all the injuries, at 36 years old. I have been running ultras now for 4 years and have completed distances from 40-100miles with NO knee pain. You will be back and stronger than ever! (I met you at Mt. Marathon last year and gave you the nine0seven hat)

  • Gyorgy Peteri

    Hello Emelie,
    You are a true inspiration for us all.
    I wish you patience and strength for the recovery process.
    There is an old Zen story which may help you to keep your positive attitude:
    http://www.beliefnet.com/Wellness/Health/2005/06/Bad-Luck-Good-Luck-Who-Knows.aspx

  • Buisson Julien

    Hi Emelie !
    I’m so sad for you but you are a great athlete and you will recover quickly. I’m sure you will come back stronger and very soon your incredible smile will come back. Just know that you are an inspiring person that gives energy to many “little” runners like me. Kisses and n’est wishes, Julien from France

  • Get well soon. Waiting for your come back.

  • Thorsten V.

    You’re such a great, positive person.. you’ll get through this! Best wishes from Germany… come back soon!

  • Laurent Allart

    HI Emelie, it is always sad to see an injured athletes not only in body but also in his heart, we know you are big, strong and good company so you can have the best possible advice for better recovery. This not pass the difficult times but what will the happiness to see you or the trails or the slopes next season. in any case the island of Reunion is behind you to motivate you to quickly return to the top of your form. Really, really we wish you a very speedy recovery.
    Lolo Solomon Reunion

  • Belius G

    Hey! I broked the cruciate ligaments of both knees, skiing (well the second time I tried to cath a tree branch to hang from it, I didn’t get it, so I went down on my left knee, auch! ;-)). And the best rehab for me was practicing yoga, not only because it’s a very effective way to win joint mobility, but for mind and emotions. Practicing yoga with grandmayoguis was the best experience I had during the process. I learn so much about myself, about patience, about how really important are small things in life. So, now, I can remember those periods with a smile. I’m sure in a few months you will be ready again for any challenge you want to do (and in yor bag will be more wisdom and knowledge about yourself and life. Sure ;-)).

  • Robert Hill

    Wow, just read this entry. Hang in there! Hope your recovery is going well.

  • Fiona porte

    Hi emy, i ve learnt this sad event by jl bal, my last coach when I was runner. I ve broken my knee 2 years ago but I wasn’t lucky and since I m every time heart. That’s very hard when u have to stop and take other decisions for your season. But u must think that’s an opportunity to discover other thing . You have time so take it, that is necessary. .you can read , write, watch movies …and you could do bicycle so soon. .and others sports like climbing^^ so pleasant activity! Consider that’s a parenthesis in your professional life but you will have positive result a day .You can learn a lot about your mind and your body;-)
    Don’t worry and take the necessary time to come back!
    Friendly.
    Fiona.